Thoughts and Distractions

My thoughts on the new "Best of Bondage" photo book

Fri, 03 Jul 2009 21:57:30 GMT

Is it a review or a rant? I suppose it's both.

I just wrote my opinion on the "Best of Bondage" photo book from Goliath on my new FHP blog.

I'm using that blog to keep my shiny new education site fresh and a venue to talk about my art work & sex ed op-ed.

http://fhp-inc.com/goodies.php

Review of Transformers

Thu, 02 Jul 2009 19:35:26 GMT

I'm sitting waiting for my allergy shot so I thought I'd review the Transformer movie I saw last night with K and JW. Some movies I love immediately - "Up" as an example. Some I hate immediately - "All The Vemeers in New York". Some I'm not sure of in the moment but then I come to love and appreciate it more and more as time goes by - "Oh Brother Where Art Thou" for one

Transformers isn't any of these. We saw it kn IMAX so all the special effects of flash, boom, bang, zoom, and clang kept my attention and my monkey brain engaged. Look, it's not like I expected a deep dramatic masterpice-I went for escapist big kid toy filled entertainment. Even consisting that it was bad. The only good things I can say about it is that it's a good vehicle to show off IMAX capability. The movie would be miserable on smaller screen and ordinary sound system. It would be like being stuck in a fender bender on the 405 during rush hour instead of watching a train wreck. You actually DO want to take your eyes off of it, there you are, stuck in the middle of clanging metal and scratchy noise.
The only other good thing of the movie was spending time with loved ones and bitching about the film afterwards.

First obvious thing - it's one giant military recruitment advertisement. All the soldiers are moral, team playing knights of justice. No one sweats in the desert. They don't seem to have to wear helmets or half the gears soldiers usually wear. The high tech equipment works and shows up on time. Since they're fighting alien robots there's no moral conflict. Even as they bash in ancient ruins, not a flinch. At the treasury of Pertra the set designers installed the most hideous wall fresco that I'm sure was meant to be ancient Roman art but looked more like a Nevada brothel's Roman room mural as done by Hallmark. As an American I've got war fatigue already. Can I just get some science fiction not a Go Army comercial. Oh and apparantly Presidential orders and call for diplomacy can be ignored. Diplomacy is wimpy-let's blow shit up because America always wins.

Then there was the rampent sexism, even worse than Independence Day. I guess it was supposed to be progress that they showed two female communications soldiers but they looked more like old movie phone operator chicks. All sex pots or ding bat moms that needed strong men to protect them and hold hand under fire. Oh the mom? As if she wouldn't know what a pot brownie is! After all her generation invented it. All the female college students, at this Harvard-like university, must have been cast as hiring program for unemployed car show booth babes, now that most American car companies are broke. It's good for the economy. Speaking of which, how do the AutoBots fight effectively when they're all American cars from bankrupt comapnies? Maybe they would have fought more precisely if they were German carbots, been more energy efficiently as Japanese carbots, or better designed as Italian carbots.

Once the claw to claw robot combat started I couldn't tell where one bot ended and other began.

All the testicle jokes got old fast.

Oh and a fist fight broke out in the theater while we were watching. Not the sort of live action movie experience I want. That I immediately grabbed my purse and scoped put the nearest exit thinking there could be bullets flying soon just speaks so well of the world we live in.

Oh did I mention that I didn't like the movie?

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July Newsletter+Events (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, SF, San Rafael, Victoria, Seattle)

Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:00:55 GMT

Here's a copy of my monthly newsletter. It's also available as e mail subscription from www.FHP-inc.com As usual, it took me forever to write it... labor of love. I hope it's useful in some way for you. :)

MIDORI'S MUSINGS NEWSLETTER July 1, 2009
1. Current Trends in Sexuality
2. Forte Femme Weekend in August: Women’s Dominance Intensive in SF
3. Registration now for Seattle Rope Dojo in August
4. July classes/events (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, San Francisco, San Rafael, Victoria Canada, Seattle)
5. Preview August classes/events (Seattle, Santa Cruz, San Francisco, Milwaukee, Chicago)
6. On Twitter now, and Other On-line Haunts: Twitter, FetLife, Yahoo, Tribe, FaceBook, etc.

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1. CURRENT TRENDS IN SEXUALITY

You’re out there making it happen!
After my musings last month on NanoActivism, e mails and on line responses poured in on the simple and small actions each of you are taking – to collectively make a profound difference in the world. Each day, among the grim news headlines, we see such signs poking out, like green sprouts breaking through the wreckage and the rot.

There also seems to be a shift of late, in people’s focus concerning their sensual and sexual lives. Emerging as a quiet trend among those attending my classes: the longing for emotional authenticity and connection with their partners. Ways to express creativity with the ordinary objects are gaining popularity as well. Fading into a lesser priority seems to be the fascination with flashy skills for the sake of flash and the interest in the latest gadgetry.

I can’t say for certain if this is a general trend – but it certainly seem to be among those I meet in workshops. As I teach to a broad spectrum of people in a wide range of geographic areas, maybe there is something to this observation. The questions during and after classes are focused more towards making intimate connections. Eyes light up to tips on better understanding one’s partners. Faces brighten while working on finding one’s fundamental joys. More people, especially couples, who’ve never come to bedroom skills workshops are coming to them as sexy date nights, leaving the kids with sitters and holding hands during class.

Maybe it’s one of those side effects of the economic meltdown. When top-of-the-line fashion magazines cover the joys of thrift shop treasure hunts and the New York Times has a series on frugal traveling, sensuality turns to the core of intimacy rather than the latest exotic adult resorts, fantastical toys or complicated technical displays.

The heart and hearth trumps bling and glitz.
This warms my heart – it’s the first blossoms of spring after a long, hard winter.

Has your focus personal pleasure and fulfillment shifted of late?
What brings you joy?

Wishing you peace and pleasure!

Midori

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2. FORTE FEMME: WOMEN’S SENSUAL DOMINANCE INTENSIVE

Forte Femme returns to San Francisco!
This very special immersion weekend is limited to 10 women.

SAN FRANCISCO Forte Femme:
When: Fri 8/14 through Sun 8/16 (Fri, 7pm – 10pm, Sat 9am – 6pm, Sun 9am – 6pm)
Where: Hyatt Regency San Francisco Airport
Cost: $650/per person.
Register: Advanced registration required. Go to www.fhp-inc.com/classes.php

Weekend Detail:

Join Midori for this special women's weekend intensive of instruction and fun! The class is limited to 10 women to ensure the highest quality tutelage. Experience a most unique, in-depth program on how to bring the joys of sensual power play to your relationship.
Expanding on Midori's ever-popular class "The Art of Feminine Dominance," you'll be fully tutored through a series of personalized instruction, practice, discussions and demonstrations. Midori believes in a compassionate approach of education focusing on “Head-Heart-&-Hands”, to go beyond merely focusing on the technique or formulaic scripts.

Find your authentic inner femme power! Through exploration of safe and effective techniques with emphasis on connections with your partner, fortified with individual attention and guidance, you'll learn the full scope of creating an amazing experience for you and your partner.

During this immersion retreat, you'll learn creative negotiation, scene setting, special equipment, play techniques including flogging, various bondage types and more. You will also explore emotional and psychological issues of loving SM in a healthy relationship.

If you have a partner, they are encouraged to join in the Lab segment on Sunday afternoon.

Included: Workbook, morning coffee & nosh, lunch, afternoon snacks, fun goodies, plus optional guided field trip into San Francisco.

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3. ON LINE REGISTRATION NOW OPEN FOR SEATTLE ROPE DOJO

Two day intensive from the head-heart-hand approach and philosophy, led by Midori and 3 other Dojo crew members. Intended for the novice and the seasoned, and for those who like to tie as well as those who like to be tied.

Online Registration: http://www.RopeDojo.com
Space Limited: 30 students
Dojo Dates: Aug 1 – 2 (10am – 6pm both days)
Cost: $350 /singles, $650/pair. (Bring an exercise buddy and save some $!)
Prerequisite: Willingness for serious rope learning. Ability to tie your shoe laces. No experience necessary. However, those with experience will be appropriately challenged.

Includes: 16+ hours of intensive training from 2 teachers and 2 trained TAs. Emphasizing balanced education focusing on “Heart-Mind-Hand” approach, covering rope skills, scene managements, psychology, history and more for both those who tie and those who are tied. Included: Morning nosh, lunches, afternoon snacks and cool swag.

For more information see the curriculum and FAQ at www.RopeDojo.com

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4. UPCOMING CLASSES / EVENTS JULY: (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, San Francisco, San Rafael, Victoria Canada, Seattle)

SANTA CRUZ, CA
~ Thr 7/9 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her" at Pure Pleasure Boutique. 204 Church Street, Santa Cruz, CA 95060 Phone: 831.466.9870 http://www.purepleasureshop.com/events.php

LOS ANGELES
~ Sat 7/11 Free class! “Love Bondage for Beginners at the Pleasure Chest. 7733 Santa Monica Blvd. West Hollywood, CA 90046 Tel. 323.650.1022 http://www.thepleasurechest.com/

~ Sun 7/12, 2pm – 5pm “Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements” at Stockroom Annex, 2811 W. Sunset Blvd. Los Angeles. CA 90026
Tickets available on line at www.fhp-inc.com/classes.php
$60 / pair in advance or $70 / pair at the door. *Advanced registration encouragd.

~ Sun 7/12, 7pm “Fun with the Family Jewels” at Syren, 2809½ W. Sunset Blvd.
Los Angeles. CA 90026 Tel: 213-989-0334 Tickets available by phone or at the door. $25 advance / $30 at door. 7pm – 9pm. http://www.syren.com

~ Tue 7/21 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man” at Coco De Mer, 8618 Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Tel: 310 652 0311 http://www.cocodemerusa.com

~ Wed 7/22 “Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice” at Coco De Mer, 8618 Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Tel: 310 652 0311 http://www.cocodemerusa.com

BERKELEY
~ Mon 7/13 “Hands-on Flogging” at Good Vibrations Berkeley, 2504 San Pablo Avenue (at Dwight Way), Berkeley, CA 94702 $25 if pre-registered, $30 for drop-ins. Call 510-841-8987 to reserve a seat. http://www.goodvibes.com

SANTA CLARA
~ Sat 7/18 “Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements” at The Edges. 6pm – 8pm. http://www.edges.biz

SAN FRANCISCO
~ Sat 7/18 Performing at the Marquis Fetish Ball. http://www.marquisfetishball.com/

~ Sun 7/19 “Playing with the Family Jewels: CBT!” 385 8th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103. tel: (415) 863-7764 http://www.mr-s-leather.com

SAN RAFAEL
~ Mon 7/20 “Art of Feminine Dominance” at Pleasures of the Heart. 1310 Fourth Street, San Rafael CA 94901 Phone: 415-482-9899
http://www.pleasuresoftheheart.com/speciale.html

VICTORIA, CANADA
~ 7/24 – 7/25 Special series of classes for Sagacity. “Hands-on Rope Bondage”, “Beyond Twisted: Kink Outside the Box”, “Mapping Your D/s Archetype”, “Improve Your Flogging Skills! Hands-on Workshop”
http://sagacitygroup.net/main/events/midori

SEATTLE
~ Tue 7/28 2 Classes at The Center for Sex Positive Culture. Topics and Details soon! 1602 15th Ave W Seattle, WA 98119 Tel: (206) 270-9746
http://www.sexpositiveculture.org

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5. PREVIEW: AUGUST CLASSES / EVENTS (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, San Francisco, San Rafael, Victoria Canada, Seattle)

SEATTLE
~ 8/1 – 8/2 Rope Bondage Dojo, Stage 1, Weekend Intensive. Preregistration required. www.RopeDojo.com

- Sun 8/2 “Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice” at Babeland. Class sells out fast, so register early. Tel. 206.328.2914. http://www.babeland.com/events/

SANTA CRUZ, CA
~ Wed 8/5 “Hands-on Rope Body Harnesses" at Pure Pleasure Boutique. 204 Church Street, Santa Cruz, CA 95060 Phone: 831.466.9870 http://www.purepleasureshop.com/events.php

SAN FRANCISCO
- Tue 8/11 “Wrapped for Pleasure: Steamy, Easy Sex Bondage” at Good Vibrations on Polk St. 620 Polk Street (at Sacramento Street) San Francisco, CA 94109
(415) 345-0400 http://www.goodvibes.com

- 8/14 – 16 Forte Femme: Women’s Sensual Dominance Weekend Intensive. (See info in above paragraph) Info & registration at: www.fhp-inc.com/classes.php

- Sat 8/21 Performance art piece at Femina Potens Gallery for the “Art of Restraint” evening soiree. It’s one of my infamous art-pranks. Info: http://www.feminapotens.org
Tickets: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/65716

MILWAUKEE
- Sun 8/23 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man” at the Tool Shed shop. 2427 N. Murray Ave, Milwaukee, WI 53211. Tel. 414-906-5304
http://www.toolshedtoys.com

- Sat 8/29 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her” at the Tool Shed shop. 2427 N. Murray Ave, Milwaukee, WI 53211. Tel. 414-906-5304
http://www.toolshedtoys.com

CHICAGO
~ Mon 8/24 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man" at The Pleasure Chest. 3436 North Lincoln Avenue. Tel: 773.525.7151
http://www.thepleasurechest.com

~ Tue 8/25 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her" at The Pleasure Chest. 3436 North Lincoln Avenue. Tel: 773.525.7151
http://www.thepleasurechest.com

~ Wed 8/26 “Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice” at The Pleasure Chest. 3436 North Lincoln Avenue. Tel: 773.525.7151
http://www.thepleasurechest.com

- Thr 8/27 "Art of Feminine Dominance, Level 1" at Early To Bed. 5232 N. Sheridan Rd. on Chicago's north side, right off Lake Shore Drive at the Foster exit Tel: 773-271-1219 or toll free at 866-585-2BED (2233).
http://www.early2bed.com

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6. TWITTER AND OTHER DIGITAL GHETTOS I LURK ABOUT IN
Ok, I’ve jointed the flock as well and I’m on Twitter as @PlanetMidori. Connect up with me there! Here are the various places I waste time at when I’m on-line… Drop on by!

Twitter @PlanetMidori
Personal Blog http://fd-midori.livejournal.com
Kink Q&A http://www.KinkWire.com
Sexuality Q&A http://groups.yahoo.com/group/divamidori
Facebook Midori ReallyMidori
Fetlife.com Midori_SF
Tribe http://midori.tribe.net
MySpace http://www.myspace.com/fd_midori

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Lion cat

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 02:04:28 GMT

I met Hendrix today. He's a Main Coon like King David. I've never met a sheared cat before. Aparantly they call it a Lion Cut and not a Poodle Cut for the sake of his dignity. (it gets hot n muggy in Ottawa in summers so he's been getting this summer cut since he was young.)

I waonder what David would look like....

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Need security camera w recording capability

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:41:22 GMT

I have an art project up my sleeve.

As part of setting this up, I need access to / get a hold of / borrow a classic recording security camera. You know, the kind that watches for shoplifters, bank security and surveilance of parking lot and stuff? The wall mounting style is nice.

Can someone help?

Forte Femme SF weekend registration now open

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 19:15:50 GMT

Hello everyone!

The on-line registration for Forte Femme: Women's Dominance Intensive in SF is now open.
This is a 3 day intensive where I pour out everything I can, from my head, heart and experience, to bring you towards a place of authentic power and fulfillment.
Please let me know if you have any questions!
If you could pass this on to relevant lists and interested parties, I'd be grateful.

:)

Midori

When: August 14-16

Where: San Francisco Airport Hyatt Regency

Limited to 10 women

Tickets: $650
Online ticket purchase at: [Fire Horse Events Ticket Sales]

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Event Details:
Forte Femme: Sensual Dominance Intensive for Women

This very special immersion weekend is limited to 10 women.

When: Fri 8/14 through Sun 8/16 (Fri. 7pm to 10pm, Sat. 9am to 6pm, Sun 9am to 6pm)

Where: Hyatt Regency San Francisco Airport

Cost: $650/per woman.
The class is limited to 10 women to ensure the highest quality tutelage.

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Weekend Detail:

Find your authentic inner femme power! Through exploration of safe and effective techniques with emphasis on connections with your partner, fortified with individual attention and guidance, you'll learn the full scope of creating a fulfilling experience for you and your partner.

Join Midori for this special women's weekend intensive of instruction and fun!

Experience a most unique, in-depth program on how to bring the joys of sensual power play to your relationship. Expanding on Midori's ever-popular class "The Art of Feminine Dominance," you'll be fully tutored through a series of personalized instruction, practice, discussions and demonstrations. Midori believes in a compassionate approach of education focusing on "Head-Heart-&-Hands", to go beyond mere focus on technique or formulaic scripts. Step into a place of empowerment, confidence and pleasure.

During this immersion retreat, you'll learn creative negotiation, scene setting, special equipment, play techniques including flogging, various bondage types and more. You will also explore emotional and psychological issues of loving SM in a healthy relationship.

If you have a partner, they are encouraged to join in the Lab segment on Sunday afternoon.

Included: Workbook, morning coffee & nosh, lunch, afternoon snacks, fun goodies, plus optional guided field trip into San Francisco.

Pre-requisite and Experience: No previous experience necessary

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Toronto snaps

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 12:09:05 GMT

I'm waiting for my ride to take me to the airport. LeVing lovely Toronto. Heading to Ottawa today to reach. Some snaps from moments here. I love the summer here.

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SF Mr. S class topic -need your opinion

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:51:41 GMT

This is for the San Francisco Bay Area folks that might want to come to a class of mine.
What's your thoughts?

On Sunday, July 19th in San Francisco I'm teaching at Mr.S/Madame S. It'll be in their special, private upstairs space.

We've narrowed the topics down to
* "Hands-on Flogging" or
* "Fun with the Family Jewels: CBT"?

would love your input!

Just added! LA July 12 "Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements"

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 08:18:50 GMT

I just added this to my upcoming LA visit!
Later the same day I'm teaching a CBT class through Syren/Stockroom.
Please pass it along.

Midori

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A Special Class with Midori
Brought to you by Fire Horse Productions, Inc.

Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements

Sunday, July 12
2pm – 5pm
2811 W Sunset Blvd, Los Angeles, CA
(Next to Syren / Stockroom)

Cost:
$60 / pair in advance at www.fhp-inc.com/classes.php or HERE
$70 / pair at the door

Class Limited to 20 Pairs

A hands-on movement class using rope in an entirely new way... Learn to dance, stretch, seduce, power-exchange and connect at a deeper level using the rope in a whole new way. If you think rope bondage is just about tying knots, you're missing the core of rope seduction! This is the foundation of truly sexy and evocative rope bondage scenes.

No rope experience necessary.
Adjustable to all fitness and mobility levels.
Special 10% discount for all purchases at Syren / Stockroom

How to Prepare:
Wear comfortable clothing.
Bring 1 rope of 15’ to 20’ per person.
Bring your own ropes or use ropes provided by Midori.

Midori is a San Francisco based sexuality educator and the author of “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” and “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink”. Find her at www.PlanetMidori.com and www.FHP-inc.com

Suggestions for a half day in Ottawa?

Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:18:24 GMT

This coming weekend I'm off to teach two classes at Venus Envy in Ottawa.
It's likely that I'll have one half day of personal time between classes, e mail and writing.
I will have limited transportation and staying near Venus Envy... and need to be able to return in time to prepare for evening classes.

What are the Must-See museum exhibitions going on? (My preference leans towards contemporary art but goes well beyond that as well.)
What's that market called? ByWays, I think? What are the must-see places there? I love good markets (Like St.Lawrence).
Gardens, parks, botanical gardens, urban oasis and nature trails are also faves.
Somewhere I read that there's some easy flat water kayaking place with good rental / guide shop. Do you know of any?
Street fairs or festivals going on?
Hidden gems of Ottawa that a visitor would enjoy?

Thanks!

Toronto classes this week: Flogging, Peaches & Rope

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:59:21 GMT

Half way through my Toronto classes right now. We just wrapped up a really fab Forte Femme weekend and a rope bondage workshop. There are a few seats still open for some of the classes so I thought I'd post that here.

~ Wed 6/24       “Hands-on Flogging” for novices and experienced. Bring your flogger or test drive one of Midori’s personal collection! At Come As You Are. 701 Queen St W, Toronto M6J 1E6 Tel. 416.504.7934   http://comeasyouare.com

~ Thr 6/25       “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her” for women only!
at Red Tent Sisters. 810 Danforth Ave. Toronto, ON M4J 1L6.    Tel. (416) 463-8368 http://www.redtentsisters.com

~ Fri 6/26       “Hands-on Rope Body Harnesses” at North Bound Leather. 586 Yonge St. Toronto. Tel (416) 975-1337 http://www.northbound.com/ ; (Advance ticket purchase encouraged)

Feel free to pass this along!

Midori

Rope Dance class just book for LA!

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 19:20:01 GMT

I just got word that I'm doing the Rope Dance class in LA on Sunday July 12th at Syren / Stockroom. It'll be in the afternoon with exact time and other details to be determined soon.
The registration will be through http://www.FHP-inc.com.
I just wanted to give you a heads up as the space will be limited to 15 pairs.

Below is the class description. Think of it as assisted stretching meets yoga meets tango meets contact improv dance meets fight club.

Anyone interested?
Mark your calendars.

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“Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements"

A hands-on movement class using rope in a entirely new way... Learn to dance, stretch, seduce, power-exchange and connect at a deeper level using the rope in a whole new way. If you think rope bondage is just about tying knots, you're missing the core of rope seduction. This is the foundation of truly sexy and evocative rope bondage scenes. No rope experience necessary. Adjustable to all fitness and mobility levels. It’s also a great new path to explore deeper leather intimacy.
How to prepare: Wear comfortable clothing. Bring your own ropes or use ropes provided by Midori.

Buzz Cut, Bootblack, & Bake Sale booth benefiting PAWS at Folsom Street Fair

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 15:16:28 GMT

My pal Artana, of shotinthedarkphotography, is doing this cool event at Folsom. I'm going to help out too.
Stop by and enjoy it, help out by volunteering or getting them the items needed.

Please feel free to forward

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artana@hotmail.com wrote:

Hi Midori,

I am trying to put together a Buzz Cut, Bootblack, & Bake Sale booth benefiting PAWS <http://www.pawssf.org/> at the Folsom Street Fair. http://folsomstreetfair.org/

PAWS is a non profit that offers food, vet services, and grooming plus much more for the companion animals for people with AIDS.
Being new to San Francisco I don't know a lot of folks. I was hoping you might forward my request to some contacts who would be interested in volunteering their time at the booth. I am looking for 9 volunteers to do one 2 hour shift a piece; either boot blacking, buzz cuts, or selling milk and cookies. I'm also looking for folks willing to donate cookies, boot polish, and cotton rags.

I will be providing an air conditioned van to work out of that has electricity, running water, etc as well as an awning to keep us cool and comfy.

Hope you are well and thanks for the help!

Artana
Drop me a line at: artana@hotmail.com
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Dokes the cat could use some love and help

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 23:34:55 GMT

So I'm going through my e mail from the last couple of weeks and found this. I couldn't imagine losing one of my cats in a fire...
It's an e mail from Jessica, the gal from Kreatliv who did the fab redesign of my FHP-inc.com site. Gorgeous work, huh? They were great to work with.

Anyhow, one of her cats, Dokes, survived the fire. They're paying through the nose with vet bills even after insurance.
I'm putting some $ in the pot because I'm a sucker for cats and they've been such good people to us...
And I'm passing the word out to you guys...

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Dear friends, family & clients,

Some of you may have already heard, but we felt it important to let everyone know that on Sunday night, our apartment caught fire and we lost everything, including one of our beloved cats, Riggs. Our other cat, Doakes, is in intensive care at the VCA West Los Angeles Animal Hospital in stable condition. He is struggling for his life, though the doctors are saying that his outlook is promising.
Kyle and I are staying with friends and are doing ok. We have clothes that friends have generously given us and we are so thankful to have such amazing people in our lives.
A lot of people have been asking us if there is anything they can do to help us. It's very difficult for us to ask anyone for support, but if you would like to help, our friends have a site set up for Doakes and you can donate toward his vet bill. Fortunately, we do have pet insurance, but this may only cover half the bill and we have to pay in full before we get to take him with us. Even the smallest amount will help. If you aren't able to help monetarily, please just send positive thoughts his way and/or forward this info on to other people. That would be tremendous.
We love you all and hope that next week’s correspondence is under better circumstances.
Here are the links to Doakes' page as well as some news stories about the fire:
www.superdokes.com
http://lafd.blogspot.com/2009/05/firefighter-injured-cats-perish-in.html
http://laist.com/2009/05/26/fire_burned_kitty_cat_in_need_of_he.php
xo jess & kyle

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CEO/Director of Projects
Kreatliv, LLC.
310.424.5301 ph
323.841.6341 cell
866.690.6761 fx
http://www.kreatliv.com
jessica@kreatliv.com

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kreatliv SKYPE
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Registration open Seattle Rope Bondage Dojo in August

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 23:03:15 GMT

FYI, the on-line registration for the next Rope Bondage Dojo (R) in Seattle, August 1-2 just opened.

go to:
http://www.RopeDojo.com

and click on Upcoming Dojos

let me know if you have any questions.

:)

Logo Contest for Passionate Bonds

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:53:14 GMT

Are you good at logo design? Midori and Laura Antoniou are looking for someone to design a simple, neat logo for our new weekend intensive, Passionate Bonds.

This contest ends at 11:30 PM, EST, July 31.
Send entries to: Laura@lantoniou.com

This special, limited registration class is intended to allow people involved or interested in D/S relationships to discover and create for themselves the optimal way of expressing and getting what they truly want. The themes of the classes and workshops include personal discovery, values, power dynamics and protocol.

Some advice and ideas:

It needs to include the words Passionate Bonds.
Don't make it too complex. See the Wikipedia article on logos for some information on what makes a good logo.
Stay away from well known BDSM symbolism - no leather pride flag, no little zen thingie, no handcuffs.
Ditto, no gothic visual cartoons, or cheap clip art.
Although color can be used, the logo should not depend on it; it must be acceptable in black and white.

The entries must be submitted as a scalable vector graphic in EPS format, and also as a JPG. All submitted work must be original and not based on any pre-existing design.

The winning artist will get a handsome selection of autographed books from both presenters, including at least two first edition books (hand numbered) from the Marketplace series. Plus, you will get bragging rights and mitzvah points. And, if you intend to attend one of these events in the future, you will be fast-tracked past any waiting lists.

This contest ends at 11:30 PM, EST, July 31.

Send entries to: Laura@lantoniou.com
These instructions may be announced, e-mailed, cross-posted and otherwise distributed at will.

Did I really see that?

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:43:06 GMT

I wished I could have taken a photo of it. But I really did see it.
It's amateur season at the airport. I'm at SFO keeping zen in the sea of wondering gaggles of summer holiday families unfamiiar with flight security procedures. Then on a jetway I saw a well to do pare ts n two kids. One toddler in stroller w laptop attachment playing kiddy vid games! She even did a shut down on her own when told by dad. Vid game stroller? Omg.

Off to Toronto now. Been up 29hr trying to catch up w work. Nap time

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June Classes (Santa Cruz, SF, Palm Springs, San Rafael, Toronto, Ottawa)

Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:36:09 GMT

Here's a copy of my monthly newsletter with classes for June and July. I'm all over the place with some fun intensives!
You can also get it directly from www.FHP-inc.com

MIDORI'S MUSINGS NEWSLETTER June 11, 2009

1. NanoActivism

2. Forte Femme Weekend: Women’s Dominance Intensive in SF 8/14 - 8/16

3. Registration opens 6/18 for Seattle Rope Dojo in August

4. June classes/events (Santa Cruz, SF, Palm Springs, San Rafael, Toronto, Ottawa)

5. Preview July classes/events (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, San Francisco, San Rafael, Victoria Canada, Seattle)

6. On Twitter now, and Other On-line Haunts: Twitter, FetLife, Yahoo, Tribe, FaceBook, MySpace etc.

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1. NANOACTIVISM

“NanoActivism: What are the little tiny actions you consciously engage in, each and every day, to change the world for the better?

What effect is it having on you and the people around you?
How to you see your teeny but persistent actions affecting the world around you?

Are you a NanoActivist?”

I posted this question on my personal blog and the responses were simply delightful. Among the many different strategies and actions, and there were many, a great number of people are consciously choosing to smile to strangers and walk through the day-to-day world with grace and integrity.

I came to the notion of NanoActivsm during my recent tour. As I spent the last six weeks out of suitcases, I had the thrill of observing people in different cities – in particular on public transit. Me: a traveler, a witness, a watcher.

In some cities the citizens lock themselves into iPod sensory cocoons and cold avoidance of meeting others’ gaze. While in another city people smile to the buskers and conversations bubble up among strangers standing in long queues.

As I watched, it became apparent that some people changed the atmosphere around them, ever so slightly, as if their thoughts and intentions created some indelible molecular shift that touched others in imperceptible yet relevant ways.
Some for the better - some for the worse.
It’s amazing what a serene smile can do for another’s day.

Are you a NanoActivist?

Wishing you peace and pleasure!

Midori

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2. FORTE FEMME: WOMEN’S SENSUAL DOMINANCE INTENSIVE

Forte Femme returns to San Francisco!
This very special immersion weekend is limited to 12 women.

SAN FRANCISCO Forte Femme:
When: Fri 8/14 through Sun 8/16 (Fri, 7pm – 10pm, Sat 9am – 6pm, Sun 9am – 6pm)
Where: Hyatt Regency San Francisco Airport
Cost: $650/per person.
Register: Registration opens on Friday, June 26th on-line at www.FHP-inc.com

Weekend Detail:

Join Midori for this special women's weekend intensive of instruction and fun! The class is limited to 12 women to ensure the highest quality tutelage. Experience a most unique, in-depth program on how to bring the joys of sensual power play to your relationship.
Expanding on Midori's ever-popular class "The Art of Feminine Dominance," you'll be fully tutored through a series of personalized instruction, practice, discussions and demonstrations. Midori believes in a compassionate approach of education focusing on “Head-Heart-&-Hands”, to go beyond merely focusing on the technique or formulaic scripts.

Find your authentic inner femme power! Through exploration of safe and effective techniques with emphasis on connections with your partner, fortified with individual attention and guidance, you'll learn the full scope of creating an amazing experience for you and your partner.

During this immersion retreat, you'll learn creative negotiation, scene setting, special equipment, play techniques including flogging, various bondage types and more. You will also explore emotional and psychological issues of loving SM in a healthy relationship.

If you have a partner, they are encouraged to join in the Lab segment on Sunday afternoon.

Included: Workbook, morning coffee & nosh, lunch, afternoon snacks, fun goodies, plus optional guided field trip into San Francisco.

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3. ON LINE REGISTRATION OPENS FOR SEATTLE ROPE DOJO

The next Rope Bondage Dojo ® weekend intensive registration is opening on-line. This does sell out early so mark your calendar! Once the class fills, there will be a Waiting List to sign up on. Any cancellations are filled from the Waiting List.

Registration opening date: Thr 18 June, 12pm Pacific Time Zone
Site: http://www.RopeDojo.com
Space Limited: 30 students
Dojo Dates: Aug 1 – 2 (10am – 6pm both days)
Cost: $350 /singles, $650/pair. (Bring an exercise buddy and save some $!)
Prerequisite: Willingness for serious rope learning. Ability to tie your shoe-laces. No experience necessary. However, those with experience will be appropriately challenged.

Includes: 16+ hours of intensive training from 2 teachers and 2 trained TAs. Emphasizing balanced education focusing on “Heart-Mind-Hand” approach, covering rope skills, scene managements, psychology, history and more for both those who tie and those who are tied. Included: Morning nosh, lunches, afternoon snacks and cool swag.

For more information see the curriculum and FAQ at www.RopeDojo.com

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4. UPCOMING CLASSES / EVENTS JUNE: (Santa Cruz, Palm Springs, San Rafael, Toronto, Ottawa)

SANTA CRUZ, CA
~ Wed 6/10 “Hands-on Rope Bondage" at Pure Pleasure Boutique. 204 Church Street, Santa Cruz, CA 95060 Phone: 831.466.9870 http://www.purepleasureshop.com/events.php

SAN FRANCISCO
~ Thr 6/11 “Hands-on Rope Bondage” at Stormy Leather. 1158 Howard Street
San Francisco, CA 94103. Tel 415.626.1672 http://www.stormyleather.com/

~ Tue 6/16 “Hands-on Rope Body Harnesses” at the Citadel. 1277 Mission St (at 9th St.), San Francisco, CA 94103. http://www.sfcitadel.org/

PALM SPRINGS
~ 6/12 – 6/14 Desire – a leather women event. Presenting several classes. http://desireleatherwomen.com

SAN RAFAEL, CA
~ Mon 6/15 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man ” at Pleasures of the Heart. 1310 Fourth Street, San Rafael CA 94901 Phone: 415-482-9899
http://www.pleasuresoftheheart.com/speciale.html

~ Mon 6/29 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her” at Pleasures of the Heart. 1310 Fourth Street, San Rafael CA 94901 Phone: 415-482-9899
http://www.pleasuresoftheheart.com/speciale.html

TORONTO, CANADA
~ 6/19 – 6/21 “Forte Femme: Sensual Dominance Weekend Intensive”
http://comeasyouare.com/index.cfm?fa=Catalog.Product&ProductId=2891

~ Mon 6/22 “Hands-on Rope Bondage” at Come As You Are. 701 Queen St W, Toronto M6J 1E6 Tel. 416.504.7934 http://comeasyouare.com

~ Tue 6/23 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man” at Come As You Are. 701 Queen St W, Toronto M6J 1E6 Tel. 416.504.7934 http://comeasyouare.com

~ Wed 6/24 “Improve Your Flogging Skills” for novices and experienced. Bring your flogger or test drive one of Midori’s personal collection! At Come As You Are. 701 Queen St W, Toronto M6J 1E6 Tel. 416.504.7934 http://comeasyouare.com

~ Thr 6/25 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her” at Red Tent Sisters. 810 Danforth Ave. Toronto, ON M4J 1L6. Tel. (416) 463-8368 http://www.redtentsisters.com

~ Fri 6/26 “Hands-on Rope Body Harnesses” at North Bound Leather. 586 Yonge St. Toronto. Tel (416) 975-1337 http://www.northbound.com/ (Advance ticket purchase encouraged)

OTTAWA, CANADA
~ Sat 6/27 “Hands-on Rope Bondage” at Venus Envy. 320 Lisgar St. Ottawa, ON, Canada. Tel. (613) 789-4646 http://www.venusenvy.ca/workshops.asp?store=Ottawa

~ Sun 6/28 “BEGINNNG TO TOP: Scene Scenarios & Scripts for Novices” at Venus Envy. 320 Lisgar St, Ottawa, ON, Canada. Tel. (613) 789-4646 http://www.venusenvy.ca/workshops.asp?store=Ottawa

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5. PREVIEW: JULY CLASSES / EVENTS (Santa Cruz, LA, Berkeley, Santa Clara, San Francisco, San Rafael, Victoria Canada, Seattle)

SANTA CRUZ, CA
~ Thr 7/9 “How to Eat a Peach: Pleasuring Her" at Pure Pleasure Boutique. 204 Church Street, Santa Cruz, CA 95060 Phone: 831.466.9870 http://www.purepleasureshop.com/events.php

LOS ANGELES
~ Sat 7/11 Free class! “Love Bondage for Beginners at the Pleasure Chest. 7733 Santa Monica Blvd. West Hollywood, CA 90046 Tel. 323.650.1022 http://www.thepleasurechest.com/

~ Sun 7/12 “Fun with the Family Jewels” at Syren, 2809½ W. Sunset Blvd.
Los Angeles. CA 90026 Tel: 213-989-0334 Tickets available by phone or at the door. $25 advance / $30 at door. 7pm – 9pm. http://www.syren.com

~ Tue 7/21 “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man” at Coco De Mer, 8618 Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Tel: 310 652 0311 http://www.cocodemerusa.com

~ Wed 7/22 “Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice” at Coco De Mer, 8618 Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Tel: 310 652 0311 http://www.cocodemerusa.com

BERKELEY
~ Mon 7/13 “Hands-on Flogging” at Good Vibrations Berkeley, 2504 San Pablo Avenue (at Dwight Way), Berkeley, CA 94702 $25 if pre-registered, $30 for drop-ins. Call 510-841-8987 to reserve a seat. http://www.goodvibes.com

SANTA CLARA
~ Sat 7/18 “Rope Dance: Dynamic Passionate Movements” at The Edges. 6pm – 8pm. http://www.edges.biz

SAN FRANCISCO
~ Sat 7/18 Performing at the Marquis Fetish Ball. http://www.marquisfetishball.com/

~ Sun 7/19 Workshop at Mr. S Leather. Topic and details soon! 385 8th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103. tel: (415) 863-7764 http://www.mr-s-leather.com

SAN RAFAEL
~ Mon 7/20 “Art of Feminine Dominance” at Pleasures of the Heart. 1310 Fourth Street, San Rafael CA 94901 Phone: 415-482-9899
http://www.pleasuresoftheheart.com/speciale.html

VICTORIA, CANADA
~ 7/24 – 7/25 Special series of classes for Sagacity. “Hands-on Rope Bondage”, “Beyond Twisted: Kink Outside the Box”, “Mapping Your D/s Archetype”, “Improve Your Flogging Skills! Hands-on Workshop”
http://sagacitygroup.net/main/events/midori

SEATTLE
~ Tue 7/28 Classes at The Center for Sex Positive Culture. Topics and Details soon! 1602 15th Ave W Seattle, WA 98119 Tel: (206) 270-9746
http://www.sexpositiveculture.org

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6. TWITTER AND OTHER ONLINE ROOSTS
Ok, I’ve jointed the flock as well and I’m on Twitter as @PlanetMidori. Connect up with me there! Here are the various places I waste time at when I’m on-line… Drop on by!

Twitter @PlanetMidori
Personal Blog http://fd-midori.livejournal.com
Kink Q&A http://www.KinkWire.com
Sexuality Q&A http://groups.yahoo.com/group/divamidori
Facebook Midori ReallyMidori
Fetlife.com Midori_SF
Tribe http://midori.tribe.net
MySpace http://www.myspace.com/fd_midori

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Ups and downs of yesterday

Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:30:55 GMT

Yesterday was such an up & down day...
This is a dull accounting of the mundane details of my day, just to get it out of my system.

Up: Waking up at home feeling rested surrounded by K and the kids. The kids are totally loving on both of us. (who says cats are aloof and unattached to humans?)

Down: Facing 2 weeks of unattended e mails. After NYC Dojo, between schedule, transit and AIDS LifeCycle I either couldn''t have my laptop with me or didn't have net accessibility.
So I'm feeling totally overwhelmed and occassionally feeling paralyzed as I stare at the screen.

Up: Long phone meeting with an organizer of a big event in May 2010. Very productive and pleasant planning meeting. They're bringing me on to present and they're so professional to work with it's a pleasure.

Down: Because I couldn't attend to e mails in two weeks an event that I was in negotiations had to withdraw offer in conisderation of proper PR time. I totally understand where they're coming from and I'm kicking myself over it. Anxious of other similiar e mails still waiting the queue for me.

Down: Buried in e mail - haven't finished the over due monthly newsletter. Must finish today!

Down: Love LA show in July seems to be getting postponed again - I've blocked out the time and made flight plans already. Oy.

Up: As Love LA isn't happening, LA Pleasure Chest wants me to come by and teach several classes during those dates.

Up: Andrea Zanin called to interview me for a magazine in Ottawa! She's so cool and such a sexy smartipants!

Down: Sudden and inexplicable failure of iPhone synching with PowerBook. Cold fear runs through me. My PowerBook is 5+ years old, it's been dropped and goes everywhere I go in my grueling schedule. If I'm lucky it's just the connecting cable. Next best option is that it's my 1st generation iPhone that's failing, in which case I'll bite the bullet and get a 3rd gen that's just coming out. Worst case... it's the lap top.

so I go to the Apple store.
Bad news. The ports are starting to fail.
Yeah I need a new lap top.
It's not something I budgeted for. This is bad.

Down: finding out that one of my dearest friend has serious illness in her immediate family and the degree of stress she's under. She's so far away - I wish I could be of better support.

Up: On the way out of the Apple store, the kid collecting Green Peace signatures feel so bad for the sad look on my face that he offers to give me a hug. He was a good hugger with a great smile and the gesture was really appreciated.

Up: After the Green Peace kid, I get to my car and a paking enforcement officer is writing up a ticket for my expired meter. Resigned to receive the ticket I apologize for letting the meter run out and chat with him about the being bummed that my lap top is terminal. He makes nice small talk with me, sympathizing about the tyranny of technology, and then lets me know that he hadn't entered all the info so he's not going to give me the ticket.

Up: I really got a shot of natural high and positivity from a great group of students and a spectacular demo partners at the "Hands-On Rope Bondage" class at Pure Pleasure. I know I should consider ways of teaching that isn't just live and in-person - but if I didn't have these my work wouldn't wouldn't be as joyful.

I think overall the Ups won over on the Downs - but man, it sure was a tough day.

Reader Survey: NanoActivism

Wed, 10 Jun 2009 16:38:19 GMT

NanoActivism:

What are the little tiny actions you consciously engage in, each and every day, to change the world for the better?

What effect is it having on you and the people around you?
How to you see your teeny but persistent actions affecting the world around you?

Are you a NanoActivist?

(I'm also posting this on my face book and twitter but really wanted to hear what my LJ pals had to say about it.)

Santa Cruz 6/10 "Hands-on Rope Bondage" at Pure Pleasure

Tue, 09 Jun 2009 18:42:51 GMT

Who's coming? :)

Midori
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Wed Jun. 10th, 2009
Hands-On Rope Bondage with Midori

7:30 pm – 9:30 pm

Location: Pure Pleasure Boutique
204 Church St. , Santa Cruz, CA 95060

$25 in advance/$30 walk-in
Info & Online Registration www.purepleasureshop.com/events.php

Rope bondage can be simple, elegant, effective and sensual, but if you don't know how to do it right, it can be dangerous. Midori will teach you how to use this versatile bondage tool to maximize fun and minimize risks. Learn basic techniques and rope tips including various two-column restraints and creative positions. Midori is the author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, and is an expert in safe and effective Japanese inspired rope bondage. Wear comfortable clothing and bring a minimum of 2 lengths of 15 feet and 2 of 25 feet of rope.
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San Francisco: Looking for a good plumber

Tue, 09 Jun 2009 15:32:20 GMT

Can someone recommend a good plumber in the San Francisco area?

We were just checking the water bill and noticed a wild increase in usage when there shouldn't be. We checked for leaks around the house and lo and behold, there are drips that are beyond our abilities. Gotta' get this fixed pronto! We need a good plumber for general anyways.

Referrals much appreciated!

Almost home

Mon, 08 Jun 2009 03:44:30 GMT

K and I are both back in SF at our fave pho joint. She rode back from LA / AIDS LifeCycle. I flew back w both our luggage.
I've been on the road for 6 weeks now, including ALC. It's been a loooong spring tour and I'm looking forward to our home, furr kids and our bed.
I'm not looking forward to the work load and catching up after being off-line for 2 weeks. Eeeep

Thanks for all your support during the ride and tour. Yeah I'll confess, I'm pretty warn out. It's good to be home.

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Candle light vigil

Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:45:49 GMT

Today was a really rough day for me - and for the whole ALC Ride.
I won't bother with details.

What helped- working to help bike parking n being nameless part of a good working group doing good, dinner in camp with the announcements - but most of all the candle light vigil on Ventura beach. A reminder why we do this - to keep the candles of hope lit, flames of life burning and memory glowing in our hearts.

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More Red Dress Day pix

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:45:35 GMT

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